A healthy and solid relationship is the dream of everyone, but often times many relationships become the opposite of what the partners had desired. Here is the good news; ‘having an everlasting and happy relationship is not impossible.’ Below, are the 10 Laws that will guide you into that healthy relationship or marriage of your dream. Follow me as I make your fantasy into a happy reality.
DECISION
You shall make your decision to date the one you adore, but only after a careful thought.
DO NOT DATE BECAUSE YOUR FRIENDS ARE DATING
This is a common mistake that young adults often make, and that’s why most often people complain of heartbreaks. That your friend or neighbor is in a relationship doesn’t mean all is well in their union. People jump into relationship with the opposite sex because their friends are into one or two, but it never lasts. The common rule is; “You Jump In, You Jump Out.” A healthy relationship isn’t built on envy and hastiness.
DEFINE YOUR AIM
Why do you want to go into a relationship? What is your goal? What do you hope to achieve from it? You need to sit and reason this before going into it.
MARRIAGE SHOULD NOT BE THE PRIMARY OBJECTIVE
Out of the desperate desire to marry, often because our mates are married, we often find a friend in serpents, with our eyes blindfolded with unrealistic desires. And sometimes we are too quick to note a partner’s fault and start to think if he or she is worth a lifetime time partner. This always brings about pretence from the ambitious partner A, thereby not allowing the partner B know who he/she truly is. Rather seek for friendship, a true friend whom you can trust. And who knows? Perhaps the marriage you never had in mind will just come out of it.
ACKNOWLEDGE THE IMPERFECTION IN EVERY HUMAN
Never for once give it a thought that your partner is infallible, because you’re not. Your partner isn’t God that makes no errors. Mutual love and respect must not be breached. Knowing this truth is a step to a healthy relationship.
TO BE CONTINUED
