“You know what, I can’t take this anymore. I just hate it when you…” And that’s the final straw needed to get the camel’s back crooked or finally broken. Ladies hate some of the things men do and count as ‘she would understand’ or the usual ‘I thought that was what you wanted.’ This could lead to a break up or enough to cause a slight crack in the relationship. The following ways will either make a lady stick with you or leave.
ATTENTION
The usual cliché everyone is familiar with. This is not about wanting the man to focus 24/7 on the lady because that would be a whole new level of creepiness, but sparing a few minutes of your time and actually paying undivided attention wouldn’t kill you. No matter how boring the subject may be, just go along with it and make it more fun, instead of tuning it out.
TIME FACTOR
When game time/hanging out with the guys interfere with hanging out with the girl, “trouble sleep, yanga go wake am” would be the situation here, and I don’t think anyone is ever prepared for a lady ready to blow her top. This may not make her stick with you. An angry lady is more dangerous than a grenade. Learn to balance the time.
PROMISES
Do not, I repeat, do not ever make promises u are unsure of, because ladies take this pretty serious. First, you make the promise and then you start making excuses and ways in which you can get out of it. Why make a promise in the first place? Make a promise and fulfill it, you’ll earn her respect more and wants to stick with you.
THE COOL VIRUS
Some guys are way in over their heads trying to look cool, especially around their friends, so when their friends are around, they act differently towards the girl, but when it’s just the guy and the girl alone, he becomes sweet Mr. Romeo again. You need to stop that and keep it real, if you can’t act the way you act towards the girl when you are alone around your friends, then that is just a douche move. She wouldn’t want to stick with you and that attitude.
MR TOO NICE
Everyone wants a nice guy, but nobody wants a guy that is too nice. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying you should start acting mean towards girls, but there is actually a thing as being too nice, nobody wants someone who treats them like a fragile doll or fine china. At first it’s all sweet but after a while it gets boring. Mix it up once in a while. Be the fun guy, even Clark Kent enjoys superman fun from time to time.
SURPRISES
Everyone likes surprises, depending on the type. Surprise that lady of yours and you never can tell, maybe all those things she had against you that have been hidden from you in that mind of hers could be forgiven.
THE PRICE TAG
Mr. Don’t-Touch-This, “I bought it 50,000 naira at the mall” or Mr. You-Just-Broke-200-Dollars-China. Hey, calm down. No one wants to know how much you bought your stuff, especially when you remind them every time you open your mouth. Never make your woman feel you value your material things than what she’s worth to you. She would never stick with you.
THE TIME MACHINE
“Make sure you get back around 2’O clock or do this around 3’O clock, or get my food ready by so and so time”. The worst is the “get ready in the next five minutes or am leaving you behind.” Now that last part is what guys should have gotten used to, all ladies are always very late. When it comes to getting ready and keeping to time when it comes to ladies, you’ve got to be really cool and play smart. If you’re to be at an event by 10am, tell her you’re to be there by 8:30am, so when she finishes her time consuming dressings and makeups at 9:30am, you can still meet up with the real time.
NEATNESS
This is extremely important. A clean, nicely dressed guy always stays on the positive with the ladies. Don’t be a slob. No one wants to date a guy with mouth odor and smelling armpits. When you look nice and smell nice, ooh la la, you’re ladies’ love.
Neatness could also go negative. This goes out to Mr. Neat-Freak; you are not getting off this easy. The whole Don’t-touch-that or Don’t-sit-there I just got it cleaned, especially when they yell, oh my! Oh my!! It’s a turn off and one of the fastest ways to drive a lady away from you. Avoid that.
SELF LOVE
Finally, when all you do is talk about yourself all the time, you’re indirectly letting her know she’s less important. It’s selfish. It’s okay to love yourself, but too much love for yourself is unhealthy for a relationship. Don’t be a selfish partner. No lady would want to stick with you if you’re that type.
